30x30: Bagel Shop

Saturday, March 5, 2011

30x30 ITEMS
Sweater: Gap brand (thrifted), $4
Khakis: Gap, $20
Boots: Laredo brand (thrifted), $1

ACCESSORIES REPORT
Headband: grocery store, $3 for 2-pack
Necklace: gift from my mom
Belt: found it
Trenchcoat: vintage, gift from my mother-in-law

I wore this for a morning date to the nearby bagel shop. We go every Saturday, my husband and I, and it's come to represent the start of a new weekend for me. It's also a great way for the two of us to reconnect. One piece of advice that I'd give to any couple is this: make your own traditions. I usually think of "traditions" as an annual thing, like Christmastime traditions or a family vacation that you take every summer, but traditions can also happen on a weekly basis or even at random intervals. I think doing things like a weekly date, a nightly cuddle session, joint trips to the gym, whatever, can serve to help two people really think of themselves as a team. Yay bonding.

My outfits for bagel dates aren't consistent in the least. Sometimes I'll feel like dressing up, which really makes it feel like a date, while other times (like today) I'll go for the comfort and ease befitting a lazy Saturday brunch. One constant: little or no makeup. That's how I roll. The one thing I really wanted for this morning was to wear this vintage trench that my mother-in-law gave me for Christmas. Piling the khaki trench on top of khaki slacks made me feel like a detective or a photojournalist (just like our girl Keri, from Headlines & Hemlines). I was a little hesitant to go with multiple, mismatched khaki-tones, but it felt like a good day for rule-breaking.


Dear Elaine from Clothed Much left a comment on my post from yesterday, and in it, she identified my typical style as "eclectic, funky." My first thought: I like both of those words and take them as a compliment! My second thought: Really? Me? I love the days when I get my funk on clothes-wise, but I've never stopped to consider whether that word (or any other) can be the signature word for my personal style. Part of it is that I'm still trying to figure out my style (it's one of my main motivations for starting this blog, in fact), but another part is that it's always tough to evaluate yourself. I feel like I could look at many of my favorite bloggers and find two or three words that pinpoint their personal style, but looking objectively at my own is a more difficult task.

One word that definitely fits my look: messy. I'll admit that much. But truth-to-tell, I don't mind the messiness. Blame it on my unruly hair.

What are the words that describe your style? Are they words you have to work for, or do they come naturally?

30x30: At Home

Friday, March 4, 2011

30x30 ITEMS
Sweater: Old Navy, $10
Jeggings: gift
Wedges: Ross, $7

ACCESSORIES REPORT
Headband: Forever 21, $2
Shorter necklace: vintage hand-me-down from mom
Longer necklace: gift

I try to avoid indoor pictures when possible, but by the time I figured out that my camera's battery needed charging, inside was the only option.

Perhaps some funny props will make up for the lackluster setting (although I do like my parentheses paintings in the background, I must admit) ...

a vintage purse (I use it as a scripture case), which my sister-in-law got from her neighbor and then gave to me

a comically-large goblet

my husband's razor

two "YAY" flags, souvenirs from my best friend's wedding

some hoity-toity book, Virgin Mother Goddesses of Antiquity

a half-full/half-empty bag of salt water taffy (the remnants of my husband's Valentine's Day gift for me)

Goodness: Things Drawn In the Sidewalk

Thursday, March 3, 2011


In case it's not clear, that's the word "SEATTLE" with what I assume is The Space Needle or a large water tower drawn underneath. Found immediately next to an elementary school playground in Provo, Utah.

I like to imagine that some kid's parents had just forced her to leave all of her friends and her childhood home back in Seattle in order to move to Provo for something stupid like a job, and she was royally peeved about it, and when she passed wet cement one day, she decided to express her mourning by drawing a remembrance of her fair city.

30x30: Just Like Juno ... But Not As Pregnant

30x30 ITEMS
Striped sweater: Banana Republic, $25
Plaid shirt: Saugatuck brand (thrifted), $0.56
Jeans: Guess brand via Buckle, $92
Boots: gift

ACCESSORIES REPORT
Earrings: shop at an amusement park, $8
Scarf: Gap Outlet, $10

After doing my bit of research into Ellen Page's style yesterday, I took my cues from her and did the best approximation possible with my 30x30 items. Plaid, layers, scarf, rolled-up jeans, ponytail that took all of five seconds -- it's a decent homage, but you can officially add "t-shirts" to my list of things that I'm excited to wear when this 30x30 situation is behind me.

Exciting news in the life of a boring person! The film Never Let Me Go is newly-available from Netflix, and my husband and I have an at-home date planned for tonight so we can watch it tonight. One of my geekier phases in life came when I first saw the trailer for Never Let Me Go and, knowing that its limited release would not extend to Provo, proceeded to watch that trailer multiple times a day for several weeks. Mild obsession had taken hold. Take a look:


I mean, come on. Get real. That is one beautiful trailer. I hope the film will live up to it.

FYI, I just received a wireless remote for my new camera, and while it's taking some trial and error to figure things out, I'm definitely finding it a helpful tool. Expect to see a few pictures (like the one below) where the remote use has malfunctioned momentarily. Yay technology!

Fashionable Feminist Icon: Ellen Page

Wednesday, March 2, 2011

Quick note: I am writing this post as part of the Feminist Fashion Bloggers network. I'll be writing a few more posts in the coming weeks that bring feminism and fashion into conversation with each other, so be watching for those. And for more information on the Feminist Fashion Bloggers network, click here.

When asked to choose a fashionable feminist icon of my very own, I felt a strange personal pressure to look for her (or him, I guess) in previous generations. Perhaps the suffragists of the late-19th and early-20th centuries would hold a suitable choice; they had those wonderful hats, after all.


Or perhaps I should look in the movement to ratify the Equal Rights Amendment, during the 1970s. Feminists galore! In wide-legged pants, with blazers and pins!


In all honesty, though, picking women from these days would have been false. I admire them fiercely, but are they my fashion icons? No, they are not.

Then I realized the error of my ways: I was looking in every place and time but my own, believing in the popular idea that feminism is in the past. As often as I see headlines lamenting the death of feminism in my generation, swearing that young women just don't care about these issues anymore, my own experience is much to the contrary. I know some young feminists personally and admire others from afar, and since many of my personal fashion icons have ages similar to mine, it stands to reason that my feminist fashion icon would as well.

Enter the wonderful Ellen Page -- just two days older than me, every bit a feminist, and a source of personal fashion inspiration.


It's not necessarily easy to pinpoint the genuine style of an actor or a model; people in these professions are so often styled in a certain way for roles or promotional shoots. From what I can tell, though, Ellen Page's style hinges heavily on comfort, androgyny, layering, and simple dresses (usually black) when the occasion calls. Whether she looks dressy or casual or disinterested in fashion, she looks like herself. She's not a clotheshorse or, thus far, a muse for designers and stylists; she's Ellen, getting dressed, and I like the way she does it.

Ellen is a good ol' fashion tom boy and she wears it well. She even claims to wear the same jeans and flannel on almost every day of the week. Ellen told the New York Times “I always want to dress up like an animal or something really obscure, like a carrot or a wrench,” she said last weekend. “That would be awesome.”
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“I am a feminist and I am totally pro-choice, but what’s funny is when you say that people assume that you are pro-abortion. I don’t love abortion but I want women to be able to choose and I don’t want white dudes in an office being able to make laws on things like this. I mean what are we going to do – go back to clothes hangers?”
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When asked about what Hollywood is like for women:
“I think it’s a total drag. I’ve been lucky to get interesting parts but there are still not that many out there for women. And everybody is so critical of women. If there’s a movie starring a man that tanks, then I don’t see an article about the fact that the movie starred a man and that must be why it bombed. Then a film comes out where a woman is in the lead, or a movie comes out where a bunch of girls are roller derbying, and it doesn’t make much money and you see articles about how women can’t carry a film.”
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"All I mean by [calling myself a feminist] is that I would like women to be equal to men, so I'd probably hope that everyone's a feminist. Women still get paid less than men, and women's bodies are still treated like ornaments, and young girls are being hypersexualised, and it's really unfortunate. I hope that most people would be feminists, whether male or female."

on whether she had input on the way Juno dressed:
"Yes... I was very specific, I was like: 'This girl's wearing a sweater-vest!' I knew how I wanted her to look. I wanted her to wear a sweater-vest, or wear baggy pants or wear a flannel shirt and be unapologetic for it. Like: that's okay, that doesn't mean anything, you know what I'm saying? People get judged for the way they dress, especially in junior high or high school, and it's, like, really childish."


"I do think there's this hypersexualised energy that happens with young girls, especially because so much is projected on you. You're told what you're supposed to find sexy, what to listen to, how to dress, it just goes on and on. I get pretty frustrated with how young females are commonly portrayed in popular media, but maybe with a film like Juno that will slowly start changing and people will be less narrow-minded and less judgmental."

on whether she'll get tons of media attention:
"You know, I still live in Nova Scotia in a small apartment with used furniture and that's just genuinely who I am. It's not to make some judgment or statement against Hollywood. I keep my feet on the ground and just try to be as sincere as... you know, as honest as possible. And anyway I'm pretty boring. I mean, I'm an active person, I love camping, I love hiking, and I love to travel, and I love to read, and I play the guitar, and that's about it. I don't go out a lot. I'll never receive that kind of Lindsay Lohan attention because people will be like: 'Here's Ellen Page with her tent going camping!' I don't really think they'll do a story about Ellen Page eating a mooseburger in Newfoundland."
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