Sweaty Wednesday by Sara (Alternate Title: The Hippie in Me)

Wednesday, January 5, 2011

You know the song from "The King and I," the song about "getting to know you"? My 2nd Grade teacher, Mrs. Hinton, would sing it to us all the time. "Getting to know you, getting to know all about you. Getting to like you, getting to hope you like me ..."


If I'm remembering right, Mrs. Hinton would sing a few lines to us before doing a spotlight moment on one of my classmates, asking them their favorite color and food and other interesting things like that, because those things matter when you're in 2nd Grade (and nowadays, they matter only slightly less).

If we were having a grown-up "Getting to Know You" moment, know what I'd say? Among other things, I'd tell you that my heart has serious hippie tendencies. In other words:

I believe in peace, love, harmony, and non-violent protest.

I would totally drive a technicolor VW bus.

I sometimes daydream about living in an earthy commune.

Sitting by a campfire and singing "What the World Needs Now is Love" holds great appeal for me.

When I see footage of 1960s students putting daisies in the guns of soldiers, it brings a tear to my eye.

This is relevant, I promise.

Tonight, I participated in an exercise practice called Nia. "Nia is a sensory-based movement practice that leads to health, wellness and fitness. It empowers people of all shapes and sizes by connecting the body, mind, emotions and spirit." (That comes straight from the official website, so you know it's true.)

Nia is made up of movements from yoga, dance, and the martial arts. Calling it "active" and "joyous" is a serious understatement. I attended a class tonight at my local studio, and it just filled me with empowerment and spirit. My body felt amazing; my mind and heart felt even better.

As I drove home, I reflected on how much I loved the night's class, and at the same time, I noted that the very things I enjoyed about it would seem hokey or downright weird to a lot of people. Those hippie-esque sentiments that feel so comfortable for me (sensing your own energy, connecting with the earth, connecting to a greater consciousness, embracing your body's rhythm, feeling the pulse of the planet beneath your bare feet) are really crazy in other people's eyes. And for loving those sentiments, maybe I seem crazy, too.

But as a kind of 2011 hippie, I can calmly say that I'm cool with that.

Parlor Hawk t-shirt: gift from our neighbors, one of whom is the lead singer of Parlor Hawk
Cut-off pajama pants: hand-me-down from a former roommate
Leggings: Target, $5 (a few years back)

Kyla from Blue Collar Catwalk does a regular "Sweaty Wednesday" post, wherein she talks a bit about her exercise regime and shows off her workout clothes in all their sweaty glory, and she's asked her readers to play along and share their own workout goals/progress. It's sheer coincidence that she put out this call on the same day the Nia class was offered, but a nice coincidence all the same.

My workout goals don't say anything about losing or gaining weight, toning up, looking good in a swimsuit -- nothing like that, nothing quite that measurable. My long-term goal is just to feel good and powerful in my body, and I won't be able to do that if my bones are aching or my muscles are weak. I think Nia will be a great way to appreciate my range of movement and increase energy, a great way to feel good and powerful.

Aside from that, my more finite workout goal isn't in the results; it's in the practice. My goal is to attend at least one Nia class per week (two are offered, so it should work fine with a changing schedule like mine). If tonight is any indication, benefits will definitely come as I achieve this goal each week, but I'm trying not to develop any preconceived notions about what those benefits will be.

So, here's to Nia, and here's to feeling good and powerful. What a happy, sweaty Wednesday it's been.

Neon Comfort

I wanted comfort and color today, and the answer to those requests will ALWAYS be my neon yellow sweater. How neon, you ask? Suffice it to say that I once went to Wal-Mart while wearing this piece, and as I walked through the parking lot in step with an employee collecting shopping carts, I noticed that my neon sweater perfectly matched his reflective safety vest. This neon is not kiddin' around.

Plaid coat: Delia's, $40 (two years ago)
Neon yellow sweater: Norma Kamali brand, $8 (secondhand from Uptown Cheapskate in SLC)
Turquoise & silver necklace: Forever 21, $6
Orange striped shirt: hand-me-down from a friend
Jeggings: gift from my mom (purchased from Ross)
Leather boots: Christmas present from my mom (purchased from Target - available here)

Second Skin -- Second Rate

Tuesday, January 4, 2011

Ready, set, here I go with my first outfit post.

This look is a second-rate version of something I saw on Second Skin (a style blog that I absolutely love). Not having a fur stole, lace-up boots, or an Indiana Jones hat at my disposal, I did the best I could and came up with this - somewhat boring, but comfy, flattering, and practical (and a step-up from the pajama pants I spent yesterday wearing).

Jacket: gift from my mom (purchased at Ross)
Green scarf: Van Heusen, $7 (purchased four years ago with employee discount)
Necklace: Icing by Claire's, $8
Black shirt: ModCloth, $22
Cream sweater: Old Navy, $10 (purchased on sale and with coupon)
Belt: vintage (belonged to my mom)
Jeans: Gap brand from Buffalo Exchange, $4 (thrifted in Las Vegas, 2008)
Black boots: 6pm.com, $60

It's a lesson I have to re-learn over and over again: getting dressed and leaving the house work WONDERS for my mood.

By the by, definitely go look at Second Skin. This woman has style to spare. Here are a few favorites from her archives (including the highly-superior inspiration for today's outfit):

Totes Had My 2nd Anniversary

It's time for a short story.

In May of 2007, I met this dude named Craig.

And when I met him, someone took a picture in which I looked truly bad. But I share it here, in a somewhat-improved and washed-out form, to show off my cute cute Craig.

In the following months, Craig and I became great friends through the wonders of online chat (there are no pictures of this significant phase, sadly, but there are entire binders-full of chat dialogue). He broke up with his girlfriend (a decision unrelated to me), and I broke up with my boyfriend (a decision unrelated to Craig).

Craig came to pay a visit on my 21st birthday.

What is he looking at? The world may never know. But anyhow, that night, we HELD HANDS.

And a week later, we KISSED LIPS. And we fell in love with each other.

We decided that we should totes get married.

He actually presented me with my lovely sapphire ring in a room full of balloons. It was static-y in there. This happened in May of 2008, a year after we first met.

We spent several months doing the long-distance-love thing, along with the get-mildly-stressed-planning-your-Christmastime-wedding thing. And after those days were over,

we totes got married.

And for the two years and nine days since December 27th, 2008, we have TOTES BEEN MARRIED. And it's been totes 100% great non-stop. Am I exaggerating? Totes, you bet. There have been tough moments aplenty. But overall, it's been wonderful to enjoy a marriage with someone who loves me, challenges me, makes Ramen for me, and tells me I'm adorable when I'm clearly not.

Happy two year and nine days anniversary to my husband and me, two lovebirds who are totes in love.

(PS - my husband really likes the word "totes," so this entire post should read like a tribute to him.)

New Year's Resolutions

Sunday, January 2, 2011

Flash back to one year ago, the very beginning of 2010. I made no less than FIVE distinct New Year's Resolutions, and they were all incredibly vague. All I did was send these desires out into the universe, with no plan whatsoever for how to succeed at my goals. I figured the planets would align and grant my wishes somehow.

My approach for 2011 is different. I've settled on two resolutions (I figure that a low number is better, like in golf); one of the resolutions is small, while the other is more serious and time-consuming. Finally, both of these goals for 2011 can be easily measured, and by the time the next New Year's Eve rolls around, it'll be abundantly clear whether I succeeded or not.

Make a weekly budget
My husband and I celebrated our second wedding anniversary about a week ago, and as we celebrated over a romantic lunch at Chili's (no need to pity us for the restaurant choice - it's where we went for our first date), we set a goal to significantly up our savings account balance in the coming year. What do we plan to do with these saved-up funds? The idea is to spend two weeks-ish of 2012 in Europe (France and Switzerland, to be precise) and not experience a speck of debt in the pursuit. Meeting this goal will require cutting back in a few areas, but more than that, it will just require us to be more purposeful and mindful in our spending. My goal is to make a weekly budget (most likely on Sunday evenings) and be well-aware of our financial situation at all times.

Learn how to french braid my own hair
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